I thought a Christmas wedding sounded lovely, & I had dreamed of having mine on Christmas Day.
The two of us wanted to have an outdoor wedding under the stars. I hoped there would be snow, & I was going to wear a faux colorless fur to keep me warm, & my groom would wear a 1900s sweater. I had everything planned out except who the groom was going to be, over the next couple of years, my wish for a Christmas day wedding went away. I was beginning to not like the chilly so much, so I was thinking it would be nice to have a wedding in the summer. The two of us could have the wedding outside, however the people I was with and I could also go inside where there was air conditioner & no bugs to eat our dinner. It would be more comfortable dancing if there was air conditioner. More people would come to the wedding if they didn’t need to worry about the chilly & snow. Of course, several of my family would not show up if it was tepid & clammy. No matter what I did, I would lose family members even if the people I was with and I had an excellent furnace or air conditioner. When I got a guy, the people I was with and I both talked about what kind of wedding the people I was with and I wanted. I had already decided it should be in the Springtime or fall & I didn’t care if it was perfect, but as long as the locale was local & it had excellent Heating & Air Conditioning so the people I was with and I could would have whatever was needed; heating or air conditioner. I couldn’t guess he felt the same way.