I believe thankful that I have such enjoyable chemistry with our current wifey, because things were awkward at times with our ex-wifey. She would occasionally communicate with myself and others via text messages while standing in our presence. It started out as a rare or occasional thing before escalating into a coping mechanism to avoid dire discussions face to face. Needless to say, I couldn’t handle the fundamental differences in our ways of approaching conflict. It was clear to myself and others that all of us weren’t wonderful for one another in the long run. She didn’t want to disclose this at first, but eventually all of us had an amicable split. Then I spent a few years being alone so I could slowly learn more about myself plus what I was really looking for in a romantic partner. You have to do soul searching to find the right person in the long run. When I eventually met our current wifey, I was surprised that all of us had so much in common. We listen to the same bands, enjoying the same TV shows, plus even study many of the same books. The many of us can always appreciate a wonderful a/c. I replaced the window a/c in our home with a brand modern one straight from the local hardware store. It has 10,000 BTUs of cooling power compared to the old 5,000 BTU equipment that was previously installed. You can entirely believe the difference in how frosty the air coming out is when you put up a hand near the exhaust vents. My wifey thinks it’s the nicest window a/c she has ever seen.